Thursday 16 February 2012

FOR ANY GUY: 5 tips to make yourself sexier

My friends and I have often discussed what makes a guy attractive. So I thought I would blog about it... I know there are probably a million studies on google, but hey, here's another one for you!

The following information is based on my preferences, but I'm pretty sure these 'sexy guy qualities' would appeal to most girls. For the guys who wanted this information...you're welcome in advance. This list, by the way, has nothing to do with physical attributes. I figured writing 'Be tall' would be of no help to people who are dissatisfied with their heights.

These 5 general tips are FOOLPROOF and SIMPLE and GENERIC. They WILL (probably) make you seem sexier, no matter who you are or what you look like. Here we go!

1. Confidence

You would have heard this countless times, and there is a reason for that. I must reiterate this: a confident guy is someone who has direction and knows what he's doing. He is NOT someone who would walk into a room with a swagger that could rate 8.0 on an earthquake scale. With confidence, there is often the easy risk of seeming arrogant/narcissistic. Arrogance is way up on the list of turn-offs. So be confident, but don't try to be the next iron man.
2. Cleanliness/ Appearance

I'm not saying walk out in a towel to prove that you just got out of the shower. It would simply be ideal if you look like you didn't just sprint through the Sahara Desert. Personally I like simple stuff on guys. Save the torn stuff/denim jackets for the salvation army. Bring out the plain, clean shirts and the non super skinny jeans. Also, keep your hair short boys...that's my preference anyway.


3. Smile!

A good smile can brighten up a room and melt any heart. However, this is not your cue to start baring all your teeth. You are not auditioning for a role as a werewolf.
4. Be yourself as much as possible 

Trying too hard becomes transparent eventually.
5. Be relaxed

I for one am a pretty passionate, feisty and crazy person. Being around a guy with the same qualities as me... well hey that would be like the Cuban Missile Crisis all over again, except WITH the nuclear warfare. Be chilled, be cool. People will probably feed off the vibes you're emanating. Also if you're relaxed, you'll probably have a better chance of being funny. A sense of humor is sexy because it makes everyone comfortable and happy.


And there you have it! If you're a guy, hope that this post was of some use to you.


1 comment:

  1. Nads I really did burst out laughing reading this, your sense of humour has made my day!

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